I remember it like it was yesterday…
I was at a magical dinner. As soon as I sat at the table, though, my anxiety prevented me from enjoying the evening: “Which fork is for the appetizer and which one for the main course? I have no idea which glass is for what, since there are 5 different sizes to deal with” I thought to myself.
Looking around the table, I noticed that I wasn’t alone in my confusion. Even the most “experienced” guests seemed uncertain about which utensils to use. We exchanged subtle glances and smiled at each other. Though I perceived my experience to be the exception, it soon became a source of laughter and connection.
After moments of uncertainty, we managed to navigate through the dinner, exhaling a sigh of relief, when dessert arrived. Learning the proper etiquette and table manners could have prevented me from feeling this way, helping me navigate with confidence any social and professional setting.
In the following years, through my work, I set out to become an expert in this realm, absorbing as much information as I could. Pushing myself further, I reached London: the heart of etiquette. I realized that proper etiquette wasn’t merely about knowing which fork to use or which glass to pick for water or wine. It also pertains to our behavior towards others. I understood that the foundation of etiquette is kindness, respect, and dignity, and has far less to do with one’s background or social status.
Looking back on my journey, I believe that this magical dinner was a turning point in my life. It taught me that proper etiquette wasn’t just a set of rules, but a way of life that could make a significant difference in people’s lives.
